Forgiveness is an important aspect of growing. However, once a person is harmed, forgetting the actions that led up to that betrayal would be a form of self-harm. A Learner understands that itβs not healthy to hold on to grudges and that itβs wise to remember the pains they suffered and who caused them. Trust comes readily to a person with this ability, and they believe most people are good. Once that trust is broken, friendliness hardens, and it can take a long while for this person to lower their guard against their betrayers.