Rationalization is an emotional plea to maintain the integrity of oneโ€™s personal reality. Itโ€™s a denial, a desperate move to maintain the illusion of control over reality. Itโ€™s like a captain aboard a sinking ship saying, โ€œWe arenโ€™t sinking! All this water in the ship is because of last nightโ€™s storm.โ€ A Learner understands they control only their choices, and attempting to equalize whatโ€™s really happening to what we want to happen is a foolโ€™s errand. A person with this ability doesnโ€™t make excuses or twist the narrative to fit what they imagine or want to be real.