Rationalization is an emotional plea to maintain the integrity of oneโs personal reality. Itโs a denial, a desperate move to maintain the illusion of control over reality. Itโs like a captain aboard a sinking ship saying, โWe arenโt sinking! All this water in the ship is because of last nightโs storm.โ A Learner understands they control only their choices, and attempting to equalize whatโs really happening to what we want to happen is a foolโs errand. A person with this ability doesnโt make excuses or twist the narrative to fit what they imagine or want to be real.